be mine

well it's that wonderful and sincere day yet again. don't get me wrong, i'm not one for passing up chocolate, kisses, hugs and PDA (to an extent), but when it's chucked in your face it can be a little hard to take.

i've been fortunate enough to be the only woman involved in a few rather candid conversations about women, sex and relationships. i am very rarely surprised with things i hear....however both conversations really floored me. i know i can't stereotype and say all men think like this but what i heard was really really startling! i'm talking 'market value', rating systems, thin versus 'fat' chicks, performance in bed and what it says about personality etc. from what i heard, i now understand titles of books such as "men are venus women are from mars"...(or something like that).